There are few words that are thrown around so loosely and frivolously as the word “love”. I think the word has been so misused and misunderstood, so polluted and corrupted that perhaps we need a new word, a better word. “Love” is one of those words that means so many different things to different people … Continue reading What Does it Mean to Say, “I Love You”?
How often have we said to ourselves, “If I could go back in time, I would do things differently.”? When we think like this, we get stuck in the past, repeating it over and over again in our minds. But we also go on repeating it in our lives as well. Every time I say … Continue reading Transforming Regret
Have you noticed that just as quickly as you fall in love with someone, you can just as suddenly fall out of love? Why is that? Could it be that what we call 'love' is often something other than love? We often confuse many things with love, in particular, attraction and infatuation. So to be … Continue reading UNHAPPY TOGETHER – Why Do We Fall Out of Love? And Why Do We Stay?
I have a friend who often calls to vent about her relationship drama, and while the details each time are slightly different, it's the same basic issues over and over again. Sometimes I'll offer some perspective. Other times, I just listen, because we've already had this talk a dozen times and there's rarely anything I … Continue reading Relationship Expectations, Reality & Disappointment