Today I wanna talk about forgiveness, because this is probably one of the most challenging issues we face in life; How to forgive someone. So what does forgiveness really mean, and how can we truly forgive? I think that most of us can understand how resentment causes us so much internal suffering, and that our … Continue reading How to Truly Forgive
Do you have someone toxic in your life - someone who treats you disrespectfully, who is argumentative, manipulative, inconsiderate, abusive, who is always creating conflict, taking advantage of your kindness, finding fault or belittling you? I'd like to offer you a way free your life of these kinds of people. So if you have someone … Continue reading How to REMOVE TOXIC PEOPLE from Your Life
There are few words that are thrown around so loosely and frivolously as the word “love”. I think the word has been so misused and misunderstood, so polluted and corrupted that perhaps we need a new word, a better word. “Love” is one of those words that means so many different things to different people … Continue reading What Does it Mean to Say, “I Love You”?
Have you noticed that just as quickly as you fall in love with someone, you can just as suddenly fall out of love? Why is that? Could it be that what we call 'love' is often something other than love? We often confuse many things with love, in particular, attraction and infatuation. So to be … Continue reading UNHAPPY TOGETHER – Why Do We Fall Out of Love? And Why Do We Stay?
“My partner isn't the same person they were when I met them.” or “How can I get my partner to change?” These are the kinds of questions we often ask. But are we not seeing the full picture? And are we focused on trying the change the wrong person? Expectations lead to disappointment, and this … Continue reading Relationship Expectations, Reality & Disappointment
There is this noble idea of universal unconditional love, that we should love not only those who love us, but even those who hate us, that we should love everyone without distinction. It's very easy to hate someone, but to love can be extremely challenging, especially when that person is difficult to tolerate. This idea … Continue reading How to Love EVERYONE… (Even Your Enemies)
Relationship is natural to all of us. We are social beings, and each of us are drawn to companionship in some form or another. For most of us there is a yearning for connection, often romantic in nature. We seek someone to love and to love us in return. We find pleasure in sharing our … Continue reading Looking for Love – Why We Seek Relationship
If you're single it's likely that you spend a great deal of time, not only thinking about finding a partner, but also actively looking for a partner. You might go out to clubs or bars hoping to make connections, or just browse through profiles on a dating site. And then there's all those dates, many … Continue reading The Biggest Mistake Single People Make
We often use the term “unconditional love” without really understanding what this means. The truth is that love, in it's purest expression, is completely unconditional. To have conditions means that there are requirements and standards that must be met in order for us to love someone. For example, it's easy to love someone who loves … Continue reading LOVE means ACCEPTANCE
So there's someone you find attractive and you finally work up the courage to tell them only to be rejected. It feels like you've been punched in the heart and you can't understand why they don't see you as desirable and worthy of their affection. And if it happens over and over again you might … Continue reading Dealing with Rejection